RA 12 Steps
Revenge Anonymous
12 Principles of Recovery
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We acknowledge that we are unable to control our revenge desires, and that this is ruining our lives.
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We believe that a Power greater than ourselves can help us become better people.
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We turn over our will to the care of this Power, as we understand It.
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We undertake a deep and honest moral assessment of our lives.
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We admit to the God, to ourselves, and to others the wrongs we have committed.
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We are ready for our ways to be corrected.
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We ask God to remove our weaknesses and failings.
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We identify those we have wronged, and are willing to make reparations to them.
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We make direct reparations to these people when possible, except when to do so would harm them or others.
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We continue to assess our lives and, when we are in error, promptly acknowledge it.
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We seek conscious contact with God, asking for God’s will and the strength to fulfill it.
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Having experienced a spiritual awakening, we seek to live our lives in accord with these principles and to bring this message to others addicted to revenge.
Revenge Anonymous
12 Principles of Unity
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The success of individual recovery depends on the solidarity of RA groups.
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RA group leaders serve, they do not direct or dictate.
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The only requirement for RA membership is a desire to stop seeking revenge.
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RA groups govern themselves except in matters affecting other groups or RA as a whole.
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The purpose of each RA group is to carry a message of hope and recovery to people suffering from revenge addiction.
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RA groups many not use the RA name for any outside purpose or for any outside enterprise, facility, or activity.
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Each RA group should support itself and decline contributions from individuals or organizations outside the group.
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RA groups should always be led by peers, not professionals, but RA service organizations may use specialized contractors and employees to fulfill their mission.
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RA may create service organizations and committees to serve the RA groups.
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RA has no comment or opinion on outside issues, and the RA name should not become part of public controversies or disputes.
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RA groups attract members through awareness and compassion and should maintain personal anonymity in interactions with the media.
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Anonymity is essential to RA's success and purpose and our foundation of placing principles before personalities.
